Love and Desire.

Love and Desire.

Thursday, June 27, 2019

It's much better to feel valued and loved in a relationship than to simply be a desire. Lust is *fleeting* in every sense of the word it comes and goes but when you truly value someone and they value you it takes the relationship to a whole new level.

Honestly there's a thin line between love and desire and people usually tend to pick one or the other which is sad considering that with the right mix of both of these it can bring about a pretty darn healthy relationship. it's all about a healthy balance, that is what a relationship craves.

Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?

Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?

Tuesday, June 25, 2019

 Being too nice and always saying yes, even when you really mean no, can lead to some annoying situations in life. Don't let people take advantage of you and be sure to let them know that you are serious when you use the word “no” and you will not change your mind. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down. 

 Here's the thing, time and time again we may come to find ourselves at the crossroad of personal happiness versus the happiness of others, but the thing about personal happiness is that it can also be help to others, i mean who wants a person who is unhappy helping them? Nobody does because they treat it like a chore. Once personal happiness is in hand one becomes more inclined to pass this great feelings onto another. And less inclined to allow people the room to mess with said happiness.

 There will still be times were choosing the overly nice route may not be for the best, as you will be helping other people throughout life and sometimes your personal happiness may get put on the back burner for awhile so keeping a type balance between being nice, but not too nice, is probably for the best considering life and people seem to love throwing curve-balls left and right just to test your mettle. Just do not let the balance tip in favor of others too much because at the end of the day your happiness matters just as much as anyone else's, never lose that mindset. Keep the balance no matter what.

Let them judge

Let them judge

Dealing with judgmental people can be a serious hassle, they always seem to have time to project all that bitterness they feel inside onto others. The best thing to do when dealing with this type of human being is to never lose your compassion for people, its obvious that those who feel the need to judge are very sad and lost people with such little focus on their life. 

With that being said you have got to stand up for yourself and just deny them the right to even play a part in your life. You have the power to dismiss a hater any time you wish, never forget that.

At the end of the day judgmental people will pop up from time to time just ignore the criticism that they give off because it is in not constructive and if its not constructive it serves absolutely no purpose in your life.

Simply put if someone finds the time to hate on whatever you are trying to accomplish in YOUR life...Fuck em.

You deserve to be surrounded by supportive and genuine people

You deserve to be surrounded by supportive and genuine people

Monday, June 24, 2019

If the people in your life are not supportive it might be time to get new people in your life. Having supportive people around you is so important when it comes to happiness because nobody wants to feel alone in any endeavor they wish to venture. You deserve to be surrounded by supportive and genuine people and you had better not settle for anything less.

If they don't support, they aren't of any import. 

7 Things That You Need To Hear.

7 Things That You Need To Hear.

Friday, June 21, 2019

7 Things That You Need To Hear In Life. 

We all have the power to be more, to choose what we want in life, to go after our desires without any regret. Life is what we make of it and sometimes you have to get inventive with the materials that have been given, but also remember that you will most likely have to seek out new materials if you ever want to build a good foundation for happiness in your life.

 There is a blueprint to happiness and it's one that you have to draw for yourself because everything that is worth it in this life is going to take hard work. Remember that no two blueprints in this life are ever drawn the same so stay focused on finishing your own.

5 Relatable Quotes About Life

5 Relatable Quotes About Life

Monday, June 17, 2019

5 Relatable Quotes About Life

 

Pain is an excellent reminder of what kind of investment has to be made to have a life truly worth living.

Strength is not made without going through pain and while we may not even ask for it, pain can be the catalyst that allows us to grow. No matter where you are today it’s not the end of your journey. Stay strong and continue to endure the pain and learn from it!

Take all that pain and turn it into "self-love" and using that as a foundation you can give that same love to others. That is growth. That is the meaning behind the pain. It is there to use as nutrient for an amazing growth period in your life!   

Taking Back The Love For Yourself

Taking Back The Love For Yourself

Friday, June 7, 2019

 It's time to Reclaim Your Self-love.

We have all had those days where we think about a number of things we wish could change from acne to our literal body shape "I just can't do this" and the bullies who seem to just know that one thing you already hate about yourself and dig a knife right into it are no help at all are they? To find self love we have to drown out all outside NEGATIVE opinions and then silence negativity inside your own mind.  
  

Here are some quick tips to get started with taking back the love for yourself that negative influences tried to take away.

• Understand who your friends truly are. if these people are more interested in tearing you down than building you up YOU DO NOT NEED THEM you are a powerful person who can do anything you want WITHOUT THEM. Say goodbye to fake friends
• Don't let ANYBODY stop you from getting your education or your money. The opinions of others DO NOT MATTER. Leave them behind and never let them weigh you down.
• Explore your own fashion and stop trying to look like everybody else. the true trend setters never looked at anybody else. Stay in your lane the other ones are taken. 
• Do not find yourself looking for sympathy....they do not care. that mean fix your life for yourself and enjoy the benefits of getting your shit together
• Find out who you are and project that mindset into the world...be sure of yourself and do not let anyone ever stop you. do not let anything take you down.
• You are a boss. Always have this mindset. let this way of thinking lead you into any territory in life and completely own it. 
• Put all of this into action! yes changing ones self is not easy but it is possible. YOU CAN LOVE YOURSELF AGAIN AND YOU CAN BE THE BOSS OF YOUR WORLD! 

You can't expect everyone to understand you. So don't let other people's lack of understanding control who you are or how you want to act. Be yourself for yourself. 

If this guide has helped you in any way please share in around! The time is now for people to once again love themselves