Honesty with a spouse or anyone really goes a long way in creating a stable and
healthy relationship, if one cannot be honest with someone they love and
saying how they feel without holding anything back something is very
wrong within the relationship. Love is about two people's feelings being
considered and taken seriously at all times.
Take
the honesty out of a relationship and what you are left with is a lot
of caring and a big question mark as far as trust is concerned. And
nobody wants a giant question mark sitting in the middle of a good
relationship tanking up the valuable space where trust should occupy.
Trusting another person comes down to a personal decision and if that
person decides to let you down...Remember they made a choice to do so
and since everyone deserves to be with a truthful and caring person if
you find they can no longer be that, then why stay any longer?
It's very hard to trust a person to do the right thing after they have
crossed that line and staying in the relationship may cause you
unnecessary strain in your life. Let them make the choice because its
ultimately up to you how many lies you are willing to put up with in the
end.
Never apologize for leaving a situation to make yourself happier. your
health matters and your happiness is important and if the person you are
with cannot understand that well then they can be dismissed. Never
settle for less than you deserve when it comes to ANYTHING! Life is too
short to even begin to live like that.
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