2019 IS YOUR YEAR
Monday, December 31, 2018
Let this new year be filled with success and happiness. You have the power to makes these things and more your reality. 2019 is the year of progress.
Happiness in healing
Friday, December 28, 2018
Happiness in life is something viewed as a luxury only the lucky can afford. It seems that happiness and life are two distant beings waiting to conjoin but fail every time. What is life if it lacks love and happiness?
People who view the non-existence of happiness in life as a foregone conclusion are substantially mistaken. One should strive for happiness and all the good things that come with it till the very last breath.
And what better way to find that exact thing than by loving yourself. In a world where people do things that they shouldn’t for people that they don’t love, loving and living for your own self is considered an abnormality.
Loving yourself can heal a broken mind and body. Loving oneself can break barriers and broaden horizons, unlike any other act. This article provides a guideline to help love yourself and in turn help others and all of the mankind.
- Honesty and Commitment: These two words should not be synonymous with a couple or only present during a relationship. You should exercise honesty and commitment to your life, values, and ethics. Only then will you know the true meaning of love and will be able to achieve something previously considered unachievable.
- Knowing When to Walk Away: Knowing your instincts and limitations will bring endless joy and happiness to your life. Backing away from the edge into the opposite direction can be considered means to an end. Needless suffering should never occur if your goal is to love yourself and avoid gloom.
- Trust: Trust is and will always be a personal decision. It can never be influenced by an outside party regardless of what the world says. Trust yourself in order to love yourself. This cannot be stressed enough. Without trust, there is no happiness and without happiness, there is simply no love for yourself or as a matter of fact for anyone.
- Discard Negativity: A negative and pessimist approach can lead to catastrophic results both physical and mental. Getting rid of all things negative will enable you to grow and be happy with your life without having any regrets or complications. Constant negativity results in poor health. A famous proverb states that “health is wealth”. Good health has an obvious direct impact on happiness.
- Avoid Perfectionism: The quest for perfection has always proven to be an ill-conceived one. There is simply no such thing as perfection. In fact, the small flaws in our lives are what make it perfect. Striving for perfection will take you far from happiness due to the fact that nothing will make you satisfied or content. Hence, avoiding perfection should be considered for one to love themselves.
A happy and comfortable life is not in the fortunes of each and every individual. Thus, we should cherish every second and live it like it’s our last. Loving yourself is of utmost importance in today’s world due to extreme tension and negative vibes surrounding it.
In conclusion, the desire and wish to live for yourself stems from within and cannot be forced upon.you. It is you who has to make it happen.
Are They Loyal?
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Some people are just there to expend your resources instead of helping you grow. They would rather absorb all the nourishment from your soil to feed themselves and watch just you wither, it's a sad thing honestly but it happens all the time. Watch the people around and see how they move.
Are they taking more out of the friendship/relationship than they are giving? Examine their motives and if you find them lacking you might need to examine their place in your life.
Without nutrient rich soil you will never grow and reach your full potential. You cannot afford selfish people around you.
So try to find people who are interested in making sure that your soil is filled with the right amount of nourishment and that the right seeds are being planted in your life. And be sure to do the same for them. Its all about reciprocity.
Own Your World
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
Do whats right for you.
Live the way you want to.
Love who you want to.
Be successful on your own terms.
Take control of your life.
Own your world or somebody else will.
You don't need them to understand your struggle
Monday, December 24, 2018
And they never will truly understand it and that's ok. You are an absolute beast and you can and will make it through whatever life throws at you. Your pain has made you strong and now nothing can break you nor impede your progress. Walk in power and walk with confidence in your purpose. You don't need them to understand your struggle, you just need them to feel the power it gave you.
Put Love Into Action
Thursday, December 20, 2018
If they cannot and will not put the word love into action then you do not need them in your life. Its really that simple. You deserve actionable people around you, not more leeches.
A Healthy Mindset
Wednesday, December 19, 2018
Do yourself a favor and remember to always keep your mindset free of the impurities of this world. All the negativity this world has to offer might constantly be coming at you, but your mindset is fortified against it!
You owe it to yourself to maintain a healthy mindset at all times. Don't let anyone or anything convince you otherwise.
Search Within
Tuesday, December 18, 2018
Sometimes you have to look within yourself to find the inspiration that you need in life. Look deep and search well. You may just find s whole new source of power.
Embrace The Better You.
Monday, December 17, 2018
Embrace the better you. The positive and successful you. The amazing, loving you. The strong and never putting up with any type of bullshit you. The unyielding you. Know that you are one of a kind. Live this life on your own terms, and never let anyone else stop you from being happy. Embrace the best version of you.
Lazy in love
Tuesday, December 11, 2018
Relationships take a lot of work but remember that while they aren't supposed to feel job its still going to take a great amount of effort. Don't get lazy in love and don't settle for a lazy in love type of partner.
Don't just vaguely demand 100% of the effort to be put into the relationship by both parties, EXPECT IT! Make it a prerequisite. Quickly let them know that its a take it or leave it type of offer. Love for love. Loyalty for loyalty. No lazy lovers allowed.
Certain Situations
Monday, December 10, 2018
Some situations are just beneath you in life. You do not need to expend your precious energy trying to make them work out no matter the cost, nor do you need to waste your time trying to get through them all. Sometimes a situation just needs you to have the self respect to walk away from it. So walk away from the situations with your head held high and your self respect intact. Never entertain toxic situations that are below your standards. Leave the bad situations and the people who create them in the rear view.
A Toxic Environment
Thursday, December 6, 2018
HEALING IN A TOXIC ENVIRONMENT IS IMPOSSIBLE.
A Toxic Environment is not a place to seek refuge. You will never be able to truly heal in a place of concentrated toxicity and negativity. Seek a better environment with better people and better things going on and take the time to heal those wounds. Stop trying to heal in a toxic environment.
Love Like Infinite Water
Wednesday, December 5, 2018
Infinite Love
Loving someone for who they are (now) is such an odd statement to me. Its just too one dimensional. Too simple of a description about what loving and being love actually requires in this life. Love is an incredibly complex thing, people change far too fast for you to concentrate all your love on a single (now). Instead, your love has to be like infinite water.
As Infinite water, the love now has
the ability to be able to change into whatever shape and form is
necessary to fit each and every moment past, present, and future, yet remain inexhaustible. This is the kind of love you deserve to give and get. An infinite love that never stops flowing.
Love Like Infinite Water.
Treat yourself in the best way possible Put yourself in the most positive situations and ignore the negative ones. You owe that much to yourself. Give yourself time to emotionally heal from the past. Sometimes it takes a little time but its well worth it. You have to treat yourself better than anyone else in the world possibly could. That is self love. That is the essence of happiness. Self care is such an amazing thing. It takes a lot of hard work, but the payoff is just spectacular.
The Best Habit To Form
Tuesday, December 4, 2018
The best type of habit to form is one where you no longer accept the bullshit people want to just throw into your life. You don't have to take the negativity into your being, you have the ability to simply cut yourself off from it. Cut off the toxic people and the situations that they bring with them. Form new habits that include positivity and good situations. Bring more peace into your life and leave the chaos behind.
Permission To Be A Badass
Monday, December 3, 2018
Permission To Be A Badass
It is your time!This is your life!
Be all that you can be!
Love more than you ever have before!
Live more than you ever thought you could!
Don't just chase success in this life BECOME success!
Forget what happened yesterday, Be ready to take on today, and be willing to conquer tomorrow!
Love & Loyalty
Sunday, December 2, 2018
Whether its friendship or relationship you need to make sure that they
can match your definition of Love & Loyalty. If the people that you
have around you cannot match your definition of Love & Loyalty you
are bound to run into multiple negative situations in the future. The simple fact is, some
people do not know how to love correctly and just aren't capable of
being completely loyal. These types of individuals are always ready and
willing to dump a mess into your peaceful life. Watch their actions and
stop listening to their words.
How a person moves in certain situations will let you know if they can even attempt to match your definition of Love & Loyalty and if they can't, it's time to go find some people that do know how to love and have the will be loyal.
Forgive and Remove.
Thursday, November 29, 2018
Just because you forgive them doesn't mean they get to stay in your life.
Just because you forgive someone does not mean you have to tolerate the type of negativity they bring into your life. They can keep that bullshit and you can move on with forgiveness in your heart and go live your best life without them in it. It's simple really. Do you want to spend anymore time on people that aren't worth it? They do not want to change and you have given them every chance to. It's time to seek out more trustworthy people! If they won't change, then its better that you do for your own sake.Turn the page on certain people
Saturday, November 24, 2018
Sometimes people are no longer deserving of your time and energy. Turn the page. Let them go. Move on. Your life is going to be much better without them. You can and will succeed without them. Remember that your progress in life is defined by you and nobody else. Surround yourself with the people that can and will be happy to see you grow in an amazing way and turn the page on those who aren't happy to see growth in your life. Life is like a book, each new page gives you the chance to put something amazing on it.
Know your self worth and stay afloat.
Tuesday, November 13, 2018
Know your self worth and stay afloat. Depression is no joke and it's going to take a serious image of your strongest self to get through the bouts with it. Depression will try to convince you that you are worth NOTHING but your self worth has to be stronger than that. Whatever you do remember your self worth and never let Depression win the war.
The Strongest People
Saturday, November 10, 2018
Find the strength to love yourself. Be strong and never let go of that love. Stay strong enough to protect that love. Self love is the greatest gift you can give to yourself. Live strong. Live with self love.
Emotional Health
Friday, November 9, 2018
No matter what is going on in life self love is knowing that your emotional health is being taken care of regardless. Evaluate how you are feeling and explore why you are feeling a certain way. See what can be done about it. Can you fix it? Can you accept the situation at hand? These types of questions will help you get through anything this world has to throw at you. Love and take care of yourself first so you can do unto others. You cannot help anyone else effectively until you know for certain that you are not "injured". Love yourself enough to keep your Emotional Health in mind at all times.
The Happy Life
Wednesday, November 7, 2018
People come into your life and some people leave your life. In both instances it's up to you to never allow them to mess with your happiness nor your peace of mind. Don't permit people to have any type of power over the state of your happiness. You need to get to a place where it it's fine if they stay or leave. Remain in a state of happiness regardless of the moves other people are making and be true to yourself. If you can do that then you will be unmovable. Unstoppable. Always remain secure in happiness.
Either change or begone.
Tuesday, November 6, 2018
If they don't want to change they don't have to. But guess what? You can change the position you have THEM in your life. Heck, you can even remove them from it. You hold all the power when it comes to your sphere. Don't let some unchanging negative person keep bringing negative aspects into your life unchecked, it's not going to bring you anything good. Don't stay trapped in someone else's negativity. The only choice they have is to either change or begone.
You are unstoppable!
Saturday, November 3, 2018
You are unstoppable! You have the power to make anything and everyone you want a reality and most of all you have the damn will to force it to manifest in your life. No more waiting! it's time to take the wheel of life and drive. Nothing can block you from your blessings and nothing can harm your momentum! Drive with confidence and put that Peddle to the Metal.
Relationship Regret?
Thursday, November 1, 2018
Sometimes we just let the wrong ones in. It's a fact of life and very hard to avoid and yes, sometimes you are going to regret the decision. Sometimes that regret lasts for a short amount of time and sometimes it lasts for years, depending on the damage that person did in your life.
But you have to pick yourself up again and try to find the will to not completely close your heart off to people but be aware of the warning signs. If anything this situation will teach you more about the fact that 99% of the people just cannot be trusted.
Don't listen to the world
Wednesday, October 31, 2018
Don't let this, world opinion have a say in how you live your life. Don't listen to anyone who thinks that they know how to live your life better than you do, they don't get a say. Live your life to the fullest and at the pace that you want to go. Life is too short to spend it being concerned with the negative opinion of other's. The best thing to do is to remove them from your life and move on without them. These negative types of people will do nothing but try to constrict your progress in life.
Walk away from
Tuesday, October 30, 2018
Know when it's time to walk away
Walk away from negative influences.
Walk away from negative and needy people.
Walk away from bad relationships and fake love.
Walk away from self doubt.
Walk away from your own lack of self-love.
It's time to walk towards the positive and bring the right things into your life one step and a time. Don't be scared to walk in the direction of your happiness and leave negative people, places, and things behind.
4 questions to ask yourself
Monday, October 29, 2018
Self-care questions
Emotional stability and self-care/self love is important. These are just a few questions to ask yourself in any given situation. Take the time to evaluate your emotional health. From relationships to the workplace I believe these 4 questions can help a person through many hardships in life, I know they have definitely helped me and I hope they can help you too.
Change into action
Friday, October 26, 2018
Put the change that you want in your life into action immediately. Even if you have to start with the smallest of movements just make sure you are moving toward your goal of change. No matter how hard it is to stick to your guns and get it done. You have to decide. Don't just think about the change BE about the change.
Find Your Truth And Live It.
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
Find your truth and live it. Knowing yourself is paramount in your journey to happiness. Don't let anyone tell you how to live nor belittle you for the mistakes you make along the way. This life is about you and how you choose to live. Through the good and bad always keep in mind that you are important and that knowing yourself will be a powerful tool in helping you not only succeed in living but to also thrive in the most hostile of environments.
Self-love and Self-care
Tuesday, October 23, 2018
Remember that you have to live this life for yourself and that self-love and self-care must come first before anything else. After all, how can you love and/or help anyone else if you lack the ability to love and help yourself? Anchor yourself in love and care.
Do you care more?
Sunday, October 21, 2018
Don't even stay in a relationship or friendship that has you questioning who cares more. If you find yourself feeling as if you are the one caring more than perhaps it's time to leave said person or people behind and simply move on and find people who know how to treat you better.
Everyday motivation
Friday, October 19, 2018
Just some everyday motivation. Don't let people negatively define you. You are clearly better than that!
Change The narrative today
Thursday, October 18, 2018
Listen to that voice inside that says, "I deserve better than this" because you do, in fact you deserve the very best! Be willing to live your best life and seek out that happy place you desire. Don't let pother people dictate what you deserve in YOUR LIFE. Know yourself and what you want out of life and go get it.
Personal Closure.
Wednesday, October 17, 2018
Look, sometimes closely is just not coming to a certain situation. But that doesn't mean you cannot move on. Broken or not moving on is going to be necessary for your future happiness. Moving on is going to be hard, but your life is going to be SO MUCH BETTER without them in it anyway. Seek personal closure instead.
Heart and Mind
Sunday, October 14, 2018
Always keep a happy heart no matter what circustance and people try to throw at you.
Clear you mind of any negativity going on around you. This world is full of it AND IT IS NOT YOURS. Keep your positivity protected.
Constant Loyalty
Thursday, October 11, 2018
Constant loyalty is necessary. Don't accept anything less from the people in your sphere. Once people show themselves to be disloyal it is unlikely that they will ever change and more likely than less they will just find a more subtle way to betray you. Yes, people can indeed change, but until they have proven that with actions.
Whether its friendships or relationships remember to always trust what you see them do and not what they say.
They deserve your distance
Wednesday, October 10, 2018
They don't deserve your anger. They deserve your distance. Sometimes distance from the negativity is just the change you need in life to gain a new perspective. Don't let them stir your emotions and instead move on to greener pastures.
Do whats best for you
Tuesday, October 9, 2018
People are not going to understand what you are doing on your path and in all honesty its none of their business anyway, but they will still have some type of opinion on how you are living your life, well don't listen to them. Some people just want to drag you down into negativity no matter what. Keep moving forward in life and do what's best for you. No explanation needed.
Courage in the Face of Anxiety
Thursday, October 4, 2018
Have courage in the face of anxiety. You are strong, you have to cement yourself in this way of thinking that way nothing can stand in your way. The moment you find your strength anxiety becomes that much easier to manage, but it's going to require a crazy amount of willpower and it might take some time. But you got this. Anxiety cannot and will not rule over your life. Have courage. Overcome.
Free of toxicity
Wednesday, October 3, 2018
Expand your view of happiness. Look for a place free of toxicity for your own good and seek out fresh air. Being around toxic people all the time is exhausting and it's going to wear you down little by little until eventually you just collapse. Seek out better people, places, and things for your happiness. For your quality of life. For your self care. For your self love. For you.
Dealing with people will always bring a new type of stress into the day lol. But deal with it we must, but that doesn't mean that people get to walk all over us, No not by any means. While we must deal with people, tolerating negative and toxic behavior is not part of the deal. Let them know early on that you will be respected and treated with dignity. Make your will known. Stress is now synonymous with people. But it's all about how you deal with that stress.
Don't let people use your insecurities.
Tuesday, October 2, 2018
Some people will do everything possible to keep you under your thumb, to try and mess with your energy, and your happiness. They think they have the upper hand, but they are dead wrong. They think your insecurities make you weak and easily manipulated. But they are wrong. You are strong willed enough to not let anyone manipulate your feelings at a whim, they are just too weak minded to understand this fact. Never let anyone think they have dominion over your happiness or security. You have that choice to make. Be strong and courageous for your happiness and peace of mind. You are not your insecurities. You are powerful.
A Vacation From People
Monday, October 1, 2018
The time away from people can be used to develop your own self interests or wind down from the hustle and bustle of being active in life, after spending some time alone with your own thoughts and actions you will come back feeling recharged and once again ready to charge head on into that crazy thing called life. Remember to take periodic breaks from people too. Its for the best!
Monday mornings
Sunday, September 30, 2018
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